A Woman's Place.

Assalamualaikum . Hello everyone. :) How ya doin?? Good? Alhamdulillah..

It is been awhile I didn't post anything here. Yup. There is some problem to make me able to post on my blog and kind lazy thing plus I have to focus on submitting the final report for my degree. It is already 2 years I live in a foreign country. UK. I miss all Malaysian food, LAKSA especially. So I decide to cook LAKSA everyday when I get back to Malaysia.. hahaha LAKSA GHOST!! 

Well, the topic for today is exploiting of man over woman. Yes! So, today I went to city to buy new headphone after playing badminton  as my old one is broken. I am not that type of shopaholic person. I will only transform into a Shopaholic person when I was really really really stress and think as a therapy for me.

I went into every shop that have 'SALE' signboard just to know if there any good enough blouse to buy for my final presentation day until I saw a woman begged for 'change' or money. I feel pity for her and decided to buy her something to eat. I am not feeling like to give her money because I don't know where exactly the money go. It is okay if you guys want to give money, just go ahead, but I don't want they ended up buying cigarettes. 

I bought some foods from nearest halal KFC(have to mention it is halal guys) and planned to turn back to where the lady was. However, I was disappointed when I saw the lady was gone. I looked around for the lady and walked across the road and then I saw her kneel down and it was padded with her beg and begged for money.

I watched her not far from where she was. It was something like 3-5 minutes. After that, I try to get to her, but she seems like revolving from the point where she was. However, there was a  man, he was eating at that time just 2-3 meters away from the lady was waiting for her. I was thinking that maybe he is the husband of that lady.

The lady came to the man an start chatting and so on and they went across the road and disappeared from my eyes. I was so disappointed at that time. Why man, why. Why you put the load over a woman to get money for you?? Why you just watched her?  A woman should be protected. It is your responsibility, I know how does it feels when someone you should rely on is not doing the right thing for you. I know how does it feel when someone called a husband does not do his duty as a son, a husband and a father. Don't you have guts?

I still can remember that lady's face was tired. 

After that incident, I feel a little bit down. I ended up by giving the food to someone else. I am woman. I believe in love. I believe there is still humanity in this brutal world. Don't be part of a brutal world. I believe you better than that. I believe you a good son. I believe you a good husband as well as a good father.

It doesn't matter whether you a Muslim, Christian or Buddhist, you should treat your wife well. Prophet Rasulullah ( peace be upon him) was really love all his wives and he never did the wrong thing to them and treat them the way it should be. As a woman we want to be loved and caring for your wife.

I do really hope what I saw this evening was a mistake and I am the wrong one that interpreted that situation at the wrong time.

I always remember a thing, If you want to be happy, you the first one that have to make other people happy then God will grant you with happiness. The more you gives, the more you get. As simple as that. :)

Sorry..